multiple symptoms and lympnodes in neck and groin

Here is my story anyone with advice please help. My health decline started two months after i had my misscarriage and D&C. I am a 32 female. I have been sick for around 6 months now. It started of with numbness and tingling on the side of my face and then my arms and legs as well as my back this went on for a few weeks. I had a ct scan and mri of my head which were both normal. I was diagnosed with h pylori I went on antibiotics while on this treatment I was diagnosed with having a blood clot in my leg which was treated with amoxiperin.Since being ill I have lost 50 lbs. I have lost a lot of hair as well. I have been tested for lupus and ms they were both negative. I also had a colonoscopy and endscopy which show chronic gastritis but nothing else. I no longer have a regular periods and when I do get it ,it is just clots coming out no blood flow. I have had a ct scan of my chest and abdomen which also showed nothing. Recently I have developed very small lymph nodes in my neck and and groin but the doctors don't think it is lymphoma because my scan in December did not show any lymph nodes in my chest or abdomen. I have had a few night sweats when this whole thing began but it was only from the neck up and no high fevers. My most recent symptom is I find at times my skin gets extremely soft and warm and I also have muscle weakness and pain. Anyone with the same symptoms or have any further suggestions for testing please let me know.Resent blood were all normal except platelet count was eleveated at 444 and wbc was slightly low at 39. Please give any suggestions

my husband is only 53 and 3 years ago he went to his doctor with a limo in his throat area only to be told it was a swollen gland...fast forward to last december a lump in his groin appeared..after biopsy told he has lymphoma, they then checked this swollen gland and it ended up being the same cancer..it was surgically removed..he has recently undergone radiation for the groin tumour,he also has only had night sweats on his head... he is doing quite well...my moral of this story is to get it rechecked..demand a biopsy on any tumours or growths....believe me the fear is worse than the outcome