gf is late after loosing her virginity please advise

hi everyone i searched on here but couldn't find anything to similar to my situation
I recently had sex with my girlfriend and it was her first time. this was on the 16th we have had sex a total of 3 times.
today she told me she is late 9 days or so
she is usually regular so she is freaking out and understandably
but the thing is all three times we had sex I did not ejaculate and we used condoms every time and I have a variselle sp? which i was told would make it hard for me to impregnate some one
she is a cheerleader and is athletic. and has been stressed at home lately and just did a extreme cleansing program for exposure to hazardous mold
she has been having cramps lately and her breasts are sore but no period.
i haven't brought up a hpt yet as I don't want her to freak out for no reason but would appreciate everyone's thoughts and opinions

You mean VARICOSE VEIN..

You can still get women pregnant, many men with that issue can get women pregnant, it is irresponsible for any doc to tell you that. It makes it seem like you have no worries, but in fact you do.

It sounds like stress and other issues could be causeing her to be late, and that does happen to women.

IF you want to be *sure*, a preganncy test would be accuarte NOW.

Also.. Birth control does not require parents to know about it, and Planned Parenthood offers it to teens for low cost and even free.

Carifairy wrote:

You mean VARICOSE VEIN.. You can still get women pregnant, many men with that issue can get women pregnant, it is irresponsible for any doc to tell you that. It makes it seem like you have no worries, but in fact you do. It sounds like stress and other issues could be causeing her to be late, and that does happen to women. IF you want to be *sure*, a preganncy test would be accuarte NOW. Also.. Birth control does not require parents to know about it, and Planned Parenthood offers it to teens for low cost and even free.

wasnt saying i was superman just saying what ive been told/read
i just didnt want to bring up a hpt so she gets more stressed and freaks out more

It is still possible that she might be pregnant..but because she is so worried stress can make you have every symptoms of pregnancy down to morning sickness to being late for your period...you need to buy a home preg test soon!

kades wrote:

It is still possible that she might be pregnant..but because she is so worried stress can make you have every symptoms of pregnancy down to morning sickness to being late for your period...you need to buy a home preg test soon!

just wonder where would the sperm have come from? there was no "touching" that could have some how come if itouched my penis then her vagina. and i had a condom on as soon as any clothes were removed. not saying your wrong iam just wondering