
"I feel like giving up," Emma told me in our first phone session. "I've worked and worked on myself and I'm still miserable. I've had years of therapy and I still feel unbearably depressed. Nothing is working."
"It sounds to me like you are abandoning yourself."
"What do you mean? I take good care of myself. I eat well, exercise daily, work hard and take care of finances - in fact I'm doing reall ...