Scared...did something stupid

Have a question. I am now pregnant. I "fooled around" with someone. He tried to go inside once, but I was too tight and he pulled out (he didn't "do it" it was real quick- or anything, but I don't know about any pre cum). Later that night, I slept with my husband and he "did it" inside me. I believe we slept together another time since that, too, but now I'm terrified of the probability of this pregnancy being with the "someone else". What are the chances of that? Help!! Stupid and scared...can't believe it. Just a dumb thing.

If the other man did not ejaculate inside of you, then you would be at such an incredibly low risk of preganancy from him.

Thank you so very much! I know this is just a dumb and irresponsible post. I can't even believe that I'm asking, but I, obviously, don't have anyone else to talk to really and I know that you don't know me from Adam, but I appreciate your input and response. I just want to do my best to stop stressing out so much and enjoy the pregnancy - and not worry about who the father is. That is just so unbelievable to even THINK that Yikes. I'm embarrassed, really and very shameful. I am hoping that you are right. I have been all over the place looking for percentages of it being his to it being my husbands. I think I'm worrying myself sick I also think I've been reading TOO much. I just wouldn't want to re-live it to the point of it being the other man's baby.

I also need to set my first prenatal appointment and hopefully the doctor will be able to tell me how far along I am. Maybe I will be VERY lucky and I'm not as far as I think...or maybe not even around that date I'm thinking. Who knows.

Lengthy post...so sorry! Thank you!!

It's okay =)

Pregnancy is most likely with ejaculation. There is nothing to be ashamed about, people make mistakes and get into situations that they regret, it doesn't make you a bad person.

I really appreciate your compassion. I am still reading all these possibilities and I think I'm still freaking myself out a bit. I don't even know how worried I'd really be if I didn't come across all of these posts and my mind start going in twenty directions. I was reading the fingering thing with the potential pre-cum or sperm possibilities, too...I tell ya. If this was a year ago, I'd probably be blinded by the whole thing and not even KNOW that could be a possibility. From what you say, the chances of getting pregnant without ejaculation inside is very low. And yes...I rambled again. Sorry. Okay...so the odds are with the actual intercourse session, I would think?? I could so see myself worrying about this the whole entire pregnancy if I keep reading all of this internet stuff. It's hard to find out what is actually proof and what is not with everything on the net today.

Thank you again!!