Lost the feeling

When-ever I cum these days it doesn't feel like an orgasim it feels like I'm going to urinate.
I'm 29 male and have two chidren and this only started to happen about 3 months ago.

I'm getting seriously annoyed now because sex doesn't feel like sex anymore and I'm getting frustrated.

Any advice?

my boyfriend seems to have the same issue. he doesn't know what is happening to him and seems to be getting a bit depressed over it. i am a little worried about it as well because of what may happen to the relationship. he is also 29 years old and has a 8 year old daughter from a previous relationship. i'm not sure if this would have anything to do with it but durring his relationship with her she didn't really put out which led to him masterbating alot. and although i think that the "over-masterbating" may be some of the problem he says that sex really hasn't been "the best thing since sliced bread" even from the time he lost his virginity ( at age 21). i think we need some explanation to what may be the problem. he even went and got circumcised to see if that was it. that only seemed to make it worse. it makes me feel bad cuz i really want to pleasure him as much as he does me.

frustration and depression can have an inpact on your sex life, you need to be in a good state of mind aswel as having a good nights sleep. try not to be frustrated but to relax and it will feel better in time

dani-baby wrote:

my boyfriend seems to have the same issue. he doesn't know what is happening to him and seems to be getting a bit depressed over it. i am a little worried about it as well because of what may happen to the relationship. he is also 29 years old and has a 8 year old daughter from a previous relationship. i'm not sure if this would have anything to do with it but durring his relationship with her she didn't really put out which led to him masterbating alot. and although i think that the "over-masterbating" may be some of the problem he says that sex really hasn't been "the best thing since sliced bread" even from the time he lost his virginity ( at age 21). i think we need some explanation to what may be the problem. he even went and got circumcised to see if that was it. that only seemed to make it worse. it makes me feel bad cuz i really want to pleasure him as much as he does me.

My girlfriend is 6 months pregnant and always completly loses her sex-drive when pregnant so I hadn't had sex for about 4 months and was masturbating a lot. I was always highly sexed but she wasn't.

I stopped for about a week and tried again but it's made no difference.
I am totally relaxed apart from when I don't get the feeling I should at the end so stress isn't a factor.

My doctor doesn't know why it's happening but he's about 70.

Does anyone know where else I can find any info on this?