Im 25, never had sex, never masterbated, whats wrong?

So i have never had sex and im 25 male,
i never fell in love with a girl so thats really the reason why
although i have never masterbated either
i got hard but never did anything about it when i was younger. Now that im 25 i never get hard.
Any help?

I really dont have the slightest clue on what to do once its hard
This is seriously not a joke

Thanks so much
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why dont U try to masturbate?

Jerking off won't do you any harm, and U might like it.
Just please yourself untill U feel good.

U never know... what you can encounter.

I'm with Cherry Dreamer on this- you just gotta try it.

As for not knowing what to do. Well, you can change this a couple of ways. You can just start touching yourself, and you will likely get pretty immediate results. Once you are comfortable with this, start experimenting with how you touch yourself. And for men, I think it's pretty self-explanatory (though since I'm not a man, I can't say for sure!). Or, if you are too unsure to just jump in, you could do what I do- read about masturbation. I bought a book, but I think there is some pretty good stuff online- maybe start with Dr. Sue or somethine- I felt a lot more confident once I knew of some surefire techniques. Most of all, don't feel nervous about your age. There is a right time for everyone to start. And as long as you approach sexual stimulation with curiousity, confidence and playfulness, you are bound to have a good time.

There is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone starts somewhere and some start earlier then others. If anything it is a way of exploring yourself/ finding out what turns you on.

For men its pritty much a case of placing your hand around the penis and using a up and down motion. You can start off slow and gradually build up the speed of the motion or just go for it. Dont worry it wont fall off in you hand no matter how hard you pull. As you go on you will start to feel presure building up inside you, this is normal, just keep going and you will see.

You dont say if your circumsized or not? If your not you will most probably find it hard to pull the forskin back while errect to start with. This is normal, dont worry. Take your time and gradually ease it over (maybe not the first time u masturate). The tip of the penis will also be extreamly sensitve to start with, this is also normal. The sesitivity will start to become less the more you play

Masturbation doesnt nessecarily involve pulling the foreskin back but you will need to clean under the forskin when you have finished or you will start to get a very strange smell. Just give yourself a min after ejaculation and you will find it easier to pull the foreskin back. Also once you have ejaculated you will find it hard to urniate for atleast 2-5mins or so. This is also normal.

Dont know if this helps you or not...let me know how you go mate

Andy

It's never too late as u know. Don't feel ashamed or wrong. I don't know if u r coming from a very conservative society or if it's just ur character.
The last reply written above is so helpful for you.
U could also downlaod a porn movie or something. Things would get clearler afterwards. Go for it and let us know as soon as possible.
Concerning girls, don't worry. as soon as u'll be used to the sexual pleasure from masturbating, u'll soon feel the need to have a girlfriend. U'll fall in love someday. that's for sure. Don't worry abt that. U r just too hard on yourself. take things easy and let it gooo

ok if ur a christian then thats a reaaaaaaallllllly good thing cause god says not to masterbate ever or have sex before marrage and your not suppost to masterbate because god made gurls for guys and guys for gurls hes also against gays and lesbians if i were you i would save yourself



and if your non beliver you should belive in got cause other wise ur goin straight t hell no offence

Ok dude im 13 and i started at 12 and i go to a private school!!! K. When u get hard from looking at porn or anything find a discrete place with some lube or like some kind of lotion. Then get naked and put the lube on ur penis and hands and started to rub. Notice ur sensitive parts of ur penis the most is the one on the bottom right behind the head. Then find a fantasy maybe its u and a girl naked touching eachother or its u like in latex or wutever. Then just keep doing that and rubbing and eventually youll have an orgasm.

First of all there is nothing wrong with you...I commend you for not having sex at your age. If you are not comfortable right now...that's fine. But note that it is OK to find out why you are not interested...is your life too full? Have no desire? Just uncomfortable in discussing it? As far as masterbation....someone made the suggestion of getting a book or visiting a trusted website. I agree. It's not something that is dirty or disgusting...it's a way to determine what turns you on so when it's time to give yourself to someone special...you will know what you enjoy....that's the wonder of sex...exploring what you and your partner likes.

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ok if ur a christian then thats a reaaaaaaallllllly good thing cause god says not to masterbate ever or have sex before marrage and your not suppost to masterbate because god made gurls for guys and guys for gurls hes also against gays and lesbians if i were you i would save yourself and if your non beliver you should belive in got cause other wise ur goin straight t hell no offence

Its ok for you to express your views here but dont tell him to not do something because of your beliefs. i understand your views and respect them but he can make his own decisions.

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So i have never had sex and im 25 male, i never fell in love with a girl so thats really the reason why although i have never masterbated either i got hard but never did anything about it when i was younger. Now that im 25 i never get hard. Any help? I really dont have the slightest clue on what to do once its hard This is seriously not a joke Thanks so much [/b]

Don't worry man some poeple just DONT masterbate its nothing to be ashamed of that you didn't learn how But anyway, even though I am 14 I masterbate everyday and just put some lotion on your hands and then grab your penis and go up and down (not too fast hehe) but then think of something that makes it hard and turns you on or makes you horny and put yourself in that situation Enjoy!