I am 33 yrs old and have never experienced a orgasm from int

I have been with my husband now for about 14 years and I am 33 yrs old.I have never had a orgasm during intercourse. This has posed many many problems in our relationship. I went to a urologist and his reply was that this was not something he could help me with, I have also went to therapy thinking that maybe there might be something they can do. I have also made a appointment with a Endocrinologist for this week.. Is there something they may be able to do to help, or am I going in the wrong direction? I am continuing my therapy, but it doesn't seem to be giving me anyway of helping myself to enjoy the feelings of the orgasm. This is also not been a problem with just my husband, I have had this problem throughout my sexual experiences. I have only been sexually active with about 5 people in my lifetime and this is so very frustrating to me and for my marriage. HELP[/b]

I am 43.5 and I have NEVER EVER experienced the BIG O. Did u ever get any help?