Feeling like having to urinate during intercourse

My girlfriend and I have been together for over 7 years. We've only recently began having sex because it was always painful for her, but we were just able to work past it and have been intimate regularly for about a week now.

My question is, it still tends to be a bit uncomfortable for her, but not painful. When I move slowly, she says it hurts towards the outside - I believe this will be fixed with some more lubrication (she tends to stay rather dry on the outside).

The main problem is when I speed up, she gets this sensation like she has to urinate badly, but once I stop moving the sensation goes away. Then when she tries to pee, hardly anything comes out and she doesn't need to go after that.

If I stay in deep it's not a problem, but when I try to do "full strokes" it is. Any thoughts? I really hope this is a normal problem.

And if u dont stop what happen?!

she could be nearing a G spot orgasm ...that "have to pee" sensation is one of the signs... look it up

Hi! my girlfriend is also experiencing the same problem, did you find any treatment..if yes please tell me aslo.

thanks.
raj

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My girlfriend and I have been together for over 7 years. We've only recently began having sex because it was always painful for her, but we were just able to work past it and have been intimate regularly for about a week now. My question is, it still tends to be a bit uncomfortable for her, but not painful. When I move slowly, she says it hurts towards the outside - I believe this will be fixed with some more lubrication (she tends to stay rather dry on the outside). The main problem is when I speed up, she gets this sensation like she has to urinate badly, but once I stop moving the sensation goes away. Then when she tries to pee, hardly anything comes out and she doesn't need to go after that. If I stay in deep it's not a problem, but when I try to do "full strokes" it is. Any thoughts? I really hope this is a normal problem.

The urge to "pee" is either a G spot orgasm (as stated previously) but more likely that feeling is more common to female ejaculation. Most often women hold back, thus, not ejaculating because of fear that their partner will thing they are peeing. Or else they do not understand this ejaculation function of their sexual processes.

ya this is a normal phenomenon if the vaginal secretion in the female is less then it provides less lubrication,intercourse in lack of lubricant gives burning sensation like urinating

Your girlfriend probably has involuntary tightness in her pelvic floor (which is common for female athletes). Because the bladder sits right on top of the vaginal canal, if her muscles are tense (from lots of unwanted friction) she will feel like she has to urinate. This is something she should see a urogynocologist for as well as womens health Physical therapy to help control her pelvic floor muscles. In the mean time try positions that keep the bladder from resting on the vaginal canal (standing or woman on top).

tell her to pee if she needs to during sex! I remember when I felt this way but one day my bf was understand and I just squirted instead and it was so good! tell her just to let it all go and that the peeing feeling is from rubbing the g-spot, make sure u have plenty of paper towels for the mess hhaa

I have a similar problem to this, although it only happens in the one position and when it has i swear it was "come" then this one time there was a WHOLE lot more wetness and my guy said i definately pee'd. But thing is I didn't notice, i didn't feel like i was about to pee or feel it when i was doing it just the wetness afterwards. Is it possible to pee or come and not even know it?

I have heard a bit about this and I do think that it's something related to stimulation issues. My understanding is that it does come from the sensation of having the g spot stimulated. Especially since she actually has the sensation of needing to urinate without actually urinating, that indicates to me that it's not actually an issue of urination. I'm glad to hear that you're using lubricant to help. Please let us know how things are going.