Brown discharge, pain during sex, itching, etc.

Alright, for the past few days I've been having this thick, clumpy, brown, odorless discharge and a bit of occasional itching. I'm on birthcontrol and highly doubt I'm pregnant, but like a week ago I missed a pill, but I doubled up the next day and didn't have sex for a few days after that. Then like a week or so ago I started experiencing pain during penetration and not too long ago after that the pain had gotten really bad and my boyfriend's penis began itching during sex and when he pulled out his penis had specks of the brown discharge all over it and it had turned red, still itched and was bumpy. He's the only guy I've ever had sex with, I'm eighteen and have been sexually active for almost a year. I've also been on birthcontrol since June of '06. I would really, really appreciate some feedback. I'm calling my gyno tomorrow, but I don't know how long it will take to get an appointment and in the mean time I'd like to have an idea of what's wrong.

hey i know this was a while since you posted this but im having almost identical symptoms! i dont know what it is but im going to make an appointment to see my doctor i just would like to know what you found out about it in case its completely nothing.. the only difference is is that i missed out on 2 pills in a row and then kept taking the rest as normal... also my boyfriends penis isnt itching during sex but weve been using condoms... im 21 but he is the only guy ive every had sex with and im pretty sure im the only girl hes ever had sex with. Is there anything you or anyone who happens to read this can tell me to help me? please?