Afraid of loosing virginity

Hello,
I need advice. I am 25 female and I am still a virgin. I frustrated with the concept of losing virginity. Actually I am afraid of losing virginity. I think I am attractive and I interest men, but I am afraid of losing virginity.
Is sth wrong with me?

Hi,
I think you are just fine and you shouldn’t feel frustrated because of losing virginity. Although young people are losing virginity at the earlier age of their lives, but my personal opinion that sth is wrong with them for running into sth unfamiliar and nothing is wrong with you. I think it is better to have positive experiences than to be disappointed at the begging. I think it is better to wait.
I suppose you heard that from your friends- wait for the right guy, become friends with him, explain your situation- your fear for losing virginity and you will have some beautiful sexual experiences in your life.
P.S. I think you are just fine thinking like that

garnica wrote:

Hi, I think you are just fine and you shouldn’t feel frustrated because of losing virginity. Although young people are losing virginity at the earlier age of their lives, but my personal opinion that sth is wrong with them for running into sth unfamiliar and nothing is wrong with you. I think it is better to have positive experiences than to be disappointed at the begging. I think it is better to wait. I suppose you heard that from your friends- wait for the right guy, become friends with him, explain your situation- your fear for losing virginity and you will have some beautiful sexual experiences in your life. P.S. I think you are just fine thinking like that

Hi,
Im a 19 yr old female and tiny im 4'8" but my boyfriend is 6'1" and packing. We want 2 have sex but im scared of the pain and i don't want to bleed wut do i do and how can i reduce the pain.

Thank You

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Hi, Im a 19 yr old female and tiny im 4'8" but my boyfriend is 6'1" and packing. We want 2 have sex but im scared of the pain and i don't want to bleed wut do i do and how can i reduce the pain. Thank You

First of all, where did you hear that sex hurts? (It can hurt if the woman’s vagina is dry, or in some special occasions but usually it doesn’t)

This pain that everybody’s talking about is not really pain but just a slight discomfort and it lasts for a few seconds/minutes.
Why are you scared of bleeding? It is not period-like bleeding but just a few drops of blood once penis enters vagina and breaks the hymen. You won’t experience the outflow.

I don’t know who told you these scary stories but they are not true.
Just relax and enjoy! And of course-use a condom! Or two!

i would just do it and recommend buying a bunch of band-aids to help the bleeding. Actually, since he's so big, guaze pads are probably best.

hi girls.....i seriously need some help from u.....i have a girlfriend who i care for the most.......she had an affair with a guy for 6 yrs and they broke up.....i use to love her since then but now when she was alone i console her.....i gave her my care and love and she loves me very much......but she is not a virgin and i an very disaoopinted with that......i want her to be totally mine i dont think of anyone else......according to her she always had quick sexual encounters.....not for long......and awkward states.....but yea she had a few relaxed ones too......i am really worried if she would be totally mine.....i just had a question that does a girl really forget someone she loses her virginiy to.....i give her a lot of love....and she is totally into me when we talk.....but back of the mind i always have a feeling she is not a virgin......i donno wat to do......i dont mind if she is not a virgin.....but she shud be mentally totally mine.....is it possible.....all the girls please guide

sonu wrote:

hi girls.....i seriously need some help from u.....i have a girlfriend who i care for the most.......she had an affair with a guy for 6 yrs and they broke up.....i use to love her since then but now when she was alone i console her.....i gave her my care and love and she loves me very much......but she is not a virgin and i an very disaoopinted with that......i want her to be totally mine i dont think of anyone else......according to her she always had quick sexual encounters.....not for long......and awkward states.....but yea she had a few relaxed ones too......i am really worried if she would be totally mine.....i just had a question that does a girl really forget someone she loses her virginiy to.....i give her a lot of love....and she is totally into me when we talk.....but back of the mind i always have a feeling she is not a virgin......i donno wat to do......i dont mind if she is not a virgin.....but she shud be mentally totally mine.....is it possible.....all the girls please guide

OK YOU WANT THE TRUTH? NO SHE'S NOT EVER GOING TO FOGET WHO SHE LOST IT TO BUT U CAN'T BE COMPARING YOURSELF TO SOMEONE ELSE EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND YOU LOVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS. FOR EXAMPLE WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS YOUR GOING TO LOVE EACH ONE OF THEM IN A DIFFERENT WAY MAYBE THE SAME AMOUNT BUT YOUR GOING TO LOVE THEM FOR THEIR DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES RIGHT? RIGHT. SO MAYBE SHE WON'T FORGET BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE'S THINKING ABOUT HIM WHEN SHES WITH YOU SHE LOVES YOU IN A WHOLE COMPLETE DIFFERENT WAY. SO PLEASE JUST LOVE HER AND MAKE HER HAPPY SHE LOVES YOU NOW SHE'S WITH YOU NOW SO TAKE CARE OF HER NOW STOP THINKING ABOUT YESTUDAY OR TOMORROW IT'S NOW THAT YOU HAVE HER AND SHE HAS YOU

SORRY IF I MADE THIS TOUGHT
BUT IT'S THE TRUTH AND I'M THINKING
THAT'S WHAT YOU WANTED.

so nice of u......yes i was just keeping on feet in tomorrow and one in yesterday and pissing on today.....thankyou so much.....

hi. i need advice i am a virgin. but im almost positive ill be losing my virginty within the next week or 2. i dont wear tampons and im afraid ill be to tight and that ill bleed a lot. :[ any advice?

hollomon wrote:

Hello, I need advice. I am 25 female and I am still a virgin. I frustrated with the concept of losing virginity. Actually I am afraid of losing virginity. I think I am attractive and I interest men, but I am afraid of losing virginity. Is sth wrong with me?

Hi, I'm 26 f and still a virgin. There is nothing wrong with it. I know exactly what you mean with saying you are afraid of losing your virginity. sometimes I even feel embarrassed about it. I am the same if not worse. It is a prescious thing to still have and the older we get the more important it is to lose it to the perfect person.

I hope you find your special someone. It's such a wonderful gift. be proud.